Kids
25 October, 2005
How many kids do you want to have in your life? One, two, three, or more? I did not have that idea when I got married in 1985. I just wanted to have a sweet and healthy baby, no matter a boy or a girl.
A year after getting married (March 24, 1986) my first kid, HIRZY, was born. A boy! Several years later (Jun 14, 1989) ATIDY was born. A boy, again! Then when the third boy, HILLY, came to our life (Sept 16, 1993), and the kids became bigger and bigger, my wife told me that it might be better if we had a girl. Yes, a girl!! Three boys and a girl. That would be great.
But .. again ALLAH SWT gave us a boy : ZHILAL (Sept 17, 2000). Four sons in the family! I told my wife that 4 boys would be ok and enough for me. The kids will grew up and they will get married some day (insha Allah). So somehow we we will have some daughters as well. Being pregnant could be dangerous for her, too.
Only a year after Zhilal had been born, Shubhanalloh, without any planning at all my wife got pregnant again. The whole family prayed that the baby would be a girl. Because of my wife’s age, it was the most difficult and full of problems pregnancy. But Alhamdulillah at the end everything ran well. And on May 28, 2002, the baby, DAFFA was born, and again: a boy!
Five sons in the family! Alhamdulillah ..